ACCESS Newswire
30 Jan 2021, 01:35 GMT+10
' This release replaces and corrects the release that ran January 27, 2021 at 11:15am ET due to updated content'
LOS ANGELES, CA / ACCESSWIRE / January 29, 2021 / Millionaires seem to have it all: exotic cars, private jets, and the dating life that mirrors Leonardo DiCaprio. This seems so self-evident that it begs the question: why even write about it? Apparently, there's one man who is changing the entire landscape of dating for millionaires. He has not only challenged this idea but proven it completely wrong.
Jesse Jhaj is a self-made millionaire who co-founded Jumpcut - a startup backed by the legendary Y-Combinator who incubated unicorns like Airbnb, Dropbox, Instacart - and then went on to launch multiple 7 and 8-figure businesses. Flying in the face of all logic and rationale, he believes that wealthy men don't have it easy when it comes to dating.
Jesse Jhaj's $500k Hobby
Jesse Jhaj became obsessed with solving the problems that existed in his dating life, which were primarily: a) that he couldn't seem to meet the 'right' women, and b) even when he met them, he had no idea how to communicate with them.
He tried all the traditional 'wealthy guy' approaches - hiring an expensive celebrity matchmaker in Los Angeles, becoming an influencer, throwing oceanfront Santa Monica mansion parties, going out to bars/clubs… and, according to Jesse, none of it felt right.
Apparently, he ended up spending upwards of $500,000 over a two-year period 'trying every method imaginable.' He even decided to bring on a co-founder as if this were a startup back at Y-Combinator, David Malka, whose logistics-focused brain made him over $5 Million in poker before founding Better Vacations, a vacation rental fund with over $250 Million in real estate assets around the world.
The two of them eventually discovered that taking all the marketing lessons that Jesse Jhaj had learned at Jumpcut, which teaches influencers how to become viral, and applying them to online dating was the perfect solution. They hired comedians, writers, data analysts, photographers and consultants all to test and optimize every single step of online dating in an attempt to crack the code to 'dating for millionaires.'
That's an expensive hobby to stumble upon, but to guys like Jhaj and Malka, it seems to have been worth it.
Millionaires Struggles More Than the Average Joe
According to Jesse Jhaj, millionaires actually have all the same struggles that the average guy does -- but with more stacked on top. That (frankly) seems unlikely at first blush. After all, self-made men surely have more confidence than the run of the mill Tinder bachelor. The success that came from building their empires would have to seep into their dating lives too.
But Jhaj says this is actually a misconception that society puts on the rich. Jhaj described the moment that he finally made it, 'when my bank account had enough that I would never have to work another day in my life, I thought my dating life would completely change. Only nothing did.'
Now that I think about it, it actually makes sense to me. Someone like Jesse Jhaj has worked his entire life in 'entrepreneur' mode - building his empire. He not only never learned how to properly communicate with women, he also had no idea how to meet them or date them. 'I became obsessed with self-development,' said Jhaj.
The Hidden Benefit
We've all seen the repercussions of what happens when wealthy men rush into relationships that aren't right for either party - they end up more than just 'partners.' They start to share everything… and because of that, according to Jesse, successful men can sometimes lose their entire empire.
Jhaj says that in order to avoid any major repercussions, wealthy men and women need to learn to understand what toxic and positive behaviors are by 'collecting as much data as possible - essentially, those who are inexperienced need to date as much as possible, take things slow and continue to learn what they like/don't like in partners with as much feedback as possible from mentors, coaches, therapists, and journaling.'
It's not just Jesse Jhaj. He claims he's learned this from his first-hand experience working with dozens of millionaire clients.
The Facade Has Been Lifted
The problems don't stop there, either. When a wealthy man doesn't know how to communicate with women properly, oftentimes his date will think to herself, 'wait, is this guy actually successful? If he were so successful, he wouldn't be this nervous and socially awkward.' Again, the same problems -- but amplified.
Jhaj says when he discussed this exact situation with other high-value women, they described it as 'the facade felt like it had suddenly been lifted.' While most wealthy men can communicate in a high-value fashion through text, they become needy and socially awkward because they have no social calibration in real life.
According to Jhaj, even the most successful man can be insecure when it comes to dating. This causes wealthy men to put up a facade when they meet women, pretending to be someone they're not. This only leads to problems down the road both for the man, and his match. Paradise falls when the facade is lifted.
This isn't just a hypothetical - it's the reason why Jesse Jhaj has so many students to begin with. After getting hurt and realizing how many mistakes they have made, or that they have absolutely no idea as to how to meet high-quality women, or that they feel like they keep 'settling in their dating lives', wealthy men will seek Jhaj for his and his team's expertise. 'They just want to find love or to stop coming home to an empty apartment. The amount of positive testimonials I get from clients warms my heart - I've literally gotten baby photos and wedding invitations.'
The key, according to Jhaj, is to avoid the facade from the beginning, and instead learn what he calls 'high-value communication.' This is part of the training Jhaj provides to his students and this methodology stands in clear contrast to the lackluster solutions that matchmakers or online courses provide. What's the downside? Well, for one, the training alone cost you more than a brand new Tesla.
Jhaj believes that no one should settle for their dating life, especially for successful men who already have everything else in their life together. 'A lot of wealthy men just settle for the next woman they meet because they think the options are not there.' Frankly, it's hard to believe that they don't have options. To be fair, that's a world I'm just not part of.
How It Gets Worse for Wealthy Men
To make matters worse, successful men typically hyper-focus on select areas of their lives: their work and health -- and neglect necessary skills such as communicating with the high-value women. The result is a 'mismatch' between the perception of what women think a successful man should be and the reality of the poor communication skills men have with women.
Jesse Jhaj seems adamant that these are issues that millionaire men have. And he believes that the 'online dating system' that he developed with Malka is the solution for millionaires to have a more fulfilling dating life. 'Not only do we have the ultimate solution for matching with amazing, girlfriend-quality women online, but we teach our clients how to communicate confidently, genuinely and from a mindset of abundance to project a high-value self.'
A $50,000 Fix?
Admittedly, some of these problems really must exist for Kevin, a former Wall Street executive who had tried all traditional forms of meeting women (even blowing $100,000 on a matchmaker), to shell out over $50K to Jesse Jhaj and his team. 'I don't want to be in a situation where I compromise with my dating partner -- or worse, find someone interested not in me but my fortune,' the client remarked in an email exchange between us. 'I feel like the value I got from the $50K spent was probably in the $500K- $1 Million+ range.'
What's in Jesse Jhaj's Dating Service
What did Kevin actually buy? A hybrid mix of personalized communication coaching from Jesse and his team on finding truly compatible partners, and a 'Rolls-Royce' done for you service where Jesse's team handles a majority of the heavy lifting for you on dating apps.
This whole online dating system, as Jhaj mentions, is based on what he coins 'the Unicorn Theory'. The theory is this: just like the rare, mythical startup that hits the $1 Billion+ valuation, men who are successful in most aspects of their lives are just as rare (hence the term 'Unicorn').
Jesse Jhaj believes that even the wealthiest men on earth can have issues communicating effectively with women. This 'gap' creates a disconnection between what a woman wants from the man and the subpar image that the man unconsciously projects.
Is It Really Worth It?
Jesse Jhaj's students are willing to pay $30,000-$200,000 for his services. Initially, that seems like an unreasonable sum until you reflect on the cost of settling on the wrong partner. With a 50/50 shot doing just that, Jhaj's service almost acts as an insurance policy against not just financial loss - but a lifetime of settling. There's no reason for men who 'have it all' to struggle to find a partner who 'has it all' too. For now, Jhaj's services fall lightyears out of my budget… but who knows. If Bitcoin keeps going the way it's going maybe I'll be a millionaire suffering from dating fatigue too. I'll keep Jhaj's number in hand just in case.
CONTACT:
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SOURCE: Jesse Jhaj
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